The School District Palm Beach Counsel

ESE Advisory Council’s Annual Fall Family Forum

Navigating The ESE System Thursday

November 13, 2014 from 5:00 to 8:00 pm

Santaluces Community High School
6880 Lawrence Road, Lantana, FL 33462

To register, please call:
Ms. Marilyn Segura-Orozco at (561) 434-8740, or email:

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Free Presentation for Parents of Children with Special Needs:

How to take the “rivalry” out of “sibling rivalry” when you have a child with special needs

Speaker: Dr. Eric Nach, Ph.D., M.Ed., A.S.D.c.

When: Monday November 10th, 2014 from 7:00-8:30p

The Support For Students Growth Center
SSGC, 5458 Town Center Rd., Suite #7,
Boca Raton, FL 33486
P: (561) 990-7305

Light refreshments will be served.

Note: You are invited to bring a friend or two, please no children to this event.

Seating is very limited, so RSVP now!

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Goal Setting for Kids is essential for building a successful life. However, teaching kids how to set and achieve goals is not part of most school curriculums, nor is it taught in most homes. Many parents never learned the techniques of goal setting, and are still struggling with their own. You don’t need to know it all. While you develop your own goal-setting skills, you can also be helping and encouraging your children to develop theirs. Goal setting is a life-long skill. It helps your child to focus their unique gifts and talents, it helps to cultivate and strengthening your child’s self-worth, and equips them to lead a life full of meaning purpose, and direction, regardless of the professional or personal paths they choose.

Things to consider when setting goals with your kids:

  • CAREER – school grades, skill development, future plan (ambition); PERSONAL- character development, and personal growth (self-image, sense of responsibility, ability, sefl-esteem), appearance
  • HEALTH – exercise, diet, over-all well-being, balance
  • COMMUNITY – commitment to serving others (volunteer work)
  • FINANCIAL – understanding the value of money, earning, saving
  • FRIENDS – expanding their circle of friends, choosing friends wisely HOUSEHOLD – chores, contribution to building home life
  • RECREATION – hobbies, relaxation, fun activities (movies, parties, etc.)

Things to remember when goal setting for kids – Expect resistance; Be firm; Look for performance, not perfection; Kids need to see the end before they begin (incentive – what will happen if…); Kids need rewards; Kids need praise.

Results As kids learn how to set goals and experience the difference goal setting makes in their personal destinies, it will encourage them to take action. They will begin to create lives for themselves that they want and “Dare to live their Dreams!” As your kids become more aware of greater possibilities in their lives, and tap into their respective talents they will develop a stronger sense of self and of their contribution to society.


Cecile Peterkin is the President and Founder of Cosmic Coaching Centre, and publishes “Recipes for Success”, a Free monthly ezine on living your best life both personally and professionally. Cecile is a certified Career Coach and Retirement Coach and Speaker. She helps Middle Managers overcome the “Middle Syndrome” of being stuck in a middle position in mid-life.

Reassuring the Nervous Child

Nervousness is a part of life. Pressure produces a great deal of anxiety, which fires up all our physiological systems. Our heart races, our skin sweats, our tummy agitates, and our blood pounds. In spite of our imprudent views as adults that kids have very little to be worried about, they too have many and inconsistent external demands on their time and internal awareness of themselves that push them to do well and achieve at all cost.

Nervousness is usually used to describe an answer to a specific circumstance. Nervousness is often used when a situation that reminds these feelings is more unclear or continuing. Some kids are more prone to nervousness than others, often both because they respond more sturdily physiologically to a situation and because they don’t yet have the coping skills other kids their age have developed to help them de-escalate their feelings. However, there are ways of helping even very young kids exceed feelings of worry. Here are some tips by early childhood education.

  • Watch your own response to worrying situations. We’re all aware of how children and preschoolers look to us to learn what their responses should be. Older kids take their signs from us as well. Learn to cool yourself and respond as kindly as possible in your day-to-day life, and you will be suppressing the nervousness in your kids also
  • Give choices and encourage self-control. Kids who feel in charge of various areas of their lives are less likely to feel weak in general, and constant helplessness is a main ingredient to a generalized feeling of nervousness. Encouraging even small steps towards decision-making and following through adds infinitely toward a sense of control and soothe in the surroundings
  • Establish expected routines. It is comforting for kids if their lives follow some sort of expected schedule. That doesn’t mean being stiff no matter what, but if bedtime and bath time and wakeup time and dinner time usually follow a certain routine, most kids will find that reassuring
  • Use eagerness to help suppress fretfulness. Let kids know ahead of time when the custom will differ. It helps to know earlier that you’ll be making a visit to the fire station as part of a class field trip, for example, rather than spending the whole day at school. However, don’t notify young kids too far in advance. Their elastic sense of time could lead to more nervousness if the future situations being discussed are mentioned too far ahead
  • Encourage capability. Feeling truly good at something helps cool the jitters when you’re faced with something else you’re not sure you’re good at. Capability breeds self-confidence, and confidence helps to win over worry
  • Teach relaxation techniques by teacher training course. Practice breath control, meditation, and mental picture techniques with your kids
  • Keep prospect realistic. Make sure that what you and your kids’ parents anticipate of them are things they can really achieve
  • Keep prospect realistic. Make sure that what you and your kids’ parents anticipate of them are things they can really achieve
  • Watch out for the symptoms of stress and anxiety. Few kids of any age will state that they’re under too much strain. Instead, you will notice a change in craving; despair; sleep problems; headaches; or clinginess
  • Know when to get outside help
About the Author:

Lizzie Milan holds Master’s in Psychology Degree. She was working as supervisor in diploma in teacher education. Currently, she is working as course co-ordinator for montessori course & pre primary teacher training course since last 20 years.

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Time Management 101: Time Management For Families

Successful time management results in successful stress management. And in today’s busy world, it’s especially important for families to find quality time to spend together. Discover 6 easy time management tips you can incorporate today. Teach your children to form good time management habits now so they’ll become better students…and better leaders!

“Successful time management results in successful stress management.” Colleen Kettenhofen

The following time management tips for families are the same ones I discussed as a featured guest on the television talk show A.M. Northwest. These are simple, basic, easy-to-follow time management tips for both parents and children. And they are the same time management tips that have worked for me in my business as a motivational speaker and author:

  1. Have white dry erase boards personalized for each person: Place one in the kitchen and one in each bedroom. The benefit of white boards in the kitchen and in each bedroom is that you and your kids will constantly see them and be reminded of what needs to be accomplished.
  2. Write down tasks with specific time frames for each parent and child: Set aside specific times and stick with them. For example, you would write on the white board, “Brandon and Chloe, homework 6:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.” And for the mom or dad, “Mom/Dad cook dinner 6:00 p.m. to 6:45 p.m.” and so forth. This way you are constantly reminded of what to do and when. You will get around to completing these tasks sooner rather than later because by “seeing” them all the time, you’ll want to cross them off your list. Erase the tasks after completing them so you no longer have to look at them!
  3. Color code for each family member: It’s easy to visualize who is supposed to do what when each individual has their own color. A lot of teams utilize this same technique in the workplace to help with time management.
  4. Clear off your desk or work area: This helps you and your kids to clear out clutter so you can concentrate single-mindedly on those projects such as paying bills or doing homework Time management rule number one: do the thing you like least first.
  5. Do the thing you like least first and plan a reward such as a fun family activity for afterward: We all have tasks that we have to do that we don’t want to do. It’s easy to procrastinate. Research points to the fact that the longer you procrastinate, the harder it is to get motivated. The hardest part is just getting started. And once you’re done, you feel so much better, lighter and happier. You and your family will feel deserving of a reward afterward such as fun time watching TV, playing games, or attending a Saturday picnic.
  6. Be a positive role model: Teach your children to form good time management habits from the beginning. When your kids see you as self-disciplined and overcoming procrastination by doing things you’d rather not, it reinforces that behavior in them as well. It sets them up later in life to be good parents themselves, and better leaders at school and in the workplace.

Keep in mind that everything you procrastinate today only compounds tomorrow’s pressure. Decide what you want. What tasks must be done in order for you and your family to accomplish your goalsFree Web Content, dreams and aspirations? Act now. Don’t wait another day. The future is now.

About the Author: Adam Waxler

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